Wednesday, August 27, 2008

So Soon???

Somewhere out there in cyberspace there is a lonely blog belonging to...me. I never used it. Who knows if we'll use this one?!?! But as I linked to several friends' blogs from Facebook, I decided that it was probably a good idea for our family. So thanks to the Scalera's, who linked me to the Casler's, who linked me to Amanda Marble, who linked me back to th Casler's, where I clicked a link to the Fringers, where I found a link to the Wyborney's. It was the Wyborney's where I saw a picture of a toddler with a too-full diaper dragging almost to the floor. OK, so that's an exaggeration, but not much. I had, in fact, seen it before on my children. However, I'm not sure I would have thought to post pictures of it and describe it in such detail. That's why we need people like Kim Wyborney. To remind us of the funny things in child-rearing that we take for granted but actually are special. From the Wyborney's I linked to Betsy and Dave Scott's blog and read about their son and a little bit about their brief time living in community at Fuller. That settled it for me. It was time to start a family blog. We'll see how it goes. I think, with Josh as involved in the internet as his mom and dad will let him be, I'll have the proper motivation to post updates. He's been wanting his own Facebook account, mainly so he can play games. He saw me Playing bowling Buddies the other day and wanted to know what website it was. Simply telling him it was Facebook didn't suffice and he asked for a better description. I said, "It's kinda like WebKinz for adults." Oops. He then begged for me to let him create an account. I told him no, explaining that he needed to be able to read to use it. Then he said, "So Brayden could have one?" Brayden is my brother's three-year-old who learned to read pretty early on. I think it was the same day he learned to crawl. OK, that may be a stretch, but it was early. I think it was before he was weaned. Hey, he's 3 and he read me a bedtime story from the Charlie Brown encyclopedia the other night. He's the only three-year-old I've ever felt smarter after listening to. Good kid.

Joy and I have a couple of great kids too. Joshua is pretty smart too, only differently. That may change soon, because there is nothing he'd rather do than play video games. One Saturday not too long ago I heard my mother's voice coming out of my mouth as I exclaimed "NO! You may not play Nick Tunes Unite on your GameCube. It's a beautiful day! Go outside and play!" (Don't you hate it when you start saying things that you hated hearing your parents say? I do it a lot.) Today we made a move to entice Josh to go outside a bit more. We acquired a playhouse/swing set from someone on Craigslist. It was free, so the price was right, and I left to get it first thing when I woke up today. He's pretty excited about it because of the "playhouse" part. He's got a great imagination and I can't wait to see him play on it when/if I get it back together. As much as I think he'll like it, our daughter Jordan was the real stimulus for the "purchase."

Sunday on the way home from church we passed a yard sale on Quincy Shore Drive. Those of you that live in the area or attended ENC might remember a house on Wolly beach that always had stuff in front of it for sale. I think it was the same house. Pretend it was. Anyway, as we drove by Joy noticed there were some things there that she "might like". Go figure. I did the right thing and turned around to go back. Sure enough there were a couple things she liked. The item of most significance was one of those plastic kitchen areas for kids. Joy wanted to get it for Jordan so badly. While Jordan isn't exactly neglected, Josh still gets the lion's share of the gifts/toys. Jordan is content with the hand-me-downs. So when Joy saw this kitchen stuff she wanted it for Jordan. It was used but in good shape and it wouldn't take a big bite out of our gasoline budget. Unfortunately, we didn't have any cash and the guy wouldn't take a check. We took about ten minutes to go to the ATM only to return to find that someone else had purchased the set. Joy was pretty upset. I felt bad for her. I think she was more excited to get it for Jordan than Jordan would have been to receive it. It was a bit upsetting because the man holding the sale wouldn't set it aside for us. He wasn't to apologetic about it either. Joy decided not to purchase the other stuff just because... We got back in the car and continued on our way. As I expected, a few minutes later I heard a little sniff. She wanted it for Jordan pretty badly. I understood. I did what little I could to try to make her feel better about the situation. I suggested that we could look on Craigslist to see if anyone was giving one away. Well, what she ended up finding was this swing set/playhouse thing. We were the first to contact the seller and the rest is and will be history once I get it set up.

4 comments:

Wendy Melchior said...

well, here you are. All grown up and assembling swing sets. Great looking famiy, Jeff.

Amanda said...

Welcome to the blog world ...

nick mucci said...

whats up brother...welcome to my new addiction...thanks for the pics and the stories...i love catchin up with people this way, you hear more than just on Facebook...anyway, love you man, Go Steelers!

*Austin Mommy* said...

Hey guys. I found your link on Dave and Betsy' blog. Hope you don't mind if I link you to my own, so I can keep updated. Great post - great pictures - great swingset! I probably would've had the same sniffles after losing a great yardsale find. I'm a sucker for a good yardsale. There will be more kitchen sets - I see them all the time (it's where I got ours). Hope you guys are well, and...Welcome to blogging!